English Notes
English Notes
6. In other words; to put it another way; that is; to put it more simply
7. Similarly; likewise; another key fact to remember; as well as; an equally significant aspect of
Giving examples
12. For instance; to give an illustration of; to exemplify; to demonstrate; as evidence; to elucidate
13. In conclusion; to conclude; to summarise; in sum; in the final analysis; on close analysis
15. Therefore; this suggests that; it can be seen that; the consequence is
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Agreement/Addition
6. Remember
8. Let’s face it
9. Better yet
14. In light of
15. Also
16. In addition to
17. Uniquely
18. Correspondingly
19. Likewise
20. Equally
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21. Moreover
22. Similarly
Opposition/Contradiction
29. Although
30. In reality
37. Besides
38. Despite
39. Regardless
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40. Nonetheless
41. Irrespective
42. Conversely
43. Otherwise
46. Even so
Examples/Persuasion/Purpose
54. Bear with me, because I’m going to show you how
57. But how do you know if this approach is for you? (Tell a story)
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60. Can this be true?
73. In truth
74. Honestly,
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83. Let me paint you a picture
92. Why?
103. Consequently
104. As a result
105. Accordingly
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106. For that reason
108. In essence
111. To summarise
LINKING WORDS
Now
Allow me to ..
Right
My next point
Firstly
First of all
Let’s start by
For a start
We’ll begin with
Secondly
Next
Then
Also
Following this
Finally
Lastly
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TO ILLUSTRATE A POINT / GIVE AN EXAMPLE
… such as …
… like …
For instance
For example
Let me show you
Futher to this
However
But
On the other hand
On the contrary
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1.MYRIAD
2.ASSERTS
3.EGREGIOUS
4.ERRONEOUS
5.ENGENDERS
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6.EMPLOYS
7.SALIENT
8.REASONS
9.ADVANTAGEOUS
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10.GALVANIZE
11.CRAFT
Definition: (verb) to make or manufacture (an object)) with skill and careful attention to detail.
Replaces: makes/produces/writes
I love the word “craft” because it instantly fills your teacher’s mind with imagery that will galvanize
her to keep on reading! Instead of asserting that a writer “produces a speech” or “writes a story”,
employ this artful word! “The speaker crafts his lecture by including a myriad of allusions to other
salient speeches” is a great start to a thesis statement! Varied word choice is always advantageous in
writing, whereas a limited vocabulary can prove to be egregious! While your peers write essays filled
with erroneous grammar and improper uses of diction, you’ll be creating a unique essay! Since
“craft” alters the tone of your entire essay, you can reason that it will engender a higher score on
your paper!
12.SUBSTANTIATE
13.CAUSTIC
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14.ELUCIDATE
15.ESOTERIC
Definition: (adjective): intended for or likely to be understood by only a small number of people with
a specialized knowledge or interest.
Replaces: obscure
Esoteric is one of those words that you probably don't commonly use so it might not exactly replace
an overused word but it perfectly captures something that's not so easy to explain. The next time
you're trying to explain something to a school friend or teacher, let 'em know that they clearly don't
share your esoteric knowledge on the subject.
16.TENUOUS
17.PERFUNCTORY
Definition: (adjective) (of an action or gesture) carried out with a minimum of effort or reflection.
Replaces: hasty, careless
I personally love this word because it's a grown-up way to say "half-ass." I'm certain you've never
written an essay in a perfunctory manner but for those times that you want to express how your
classmate did a perfunctory job in contributing to your group project or tell your boyfriend that he
gave you a perfunctory kiss and he needs to step it up, it's perfect!
18.ANOMALY
Definition: (noun) out of the ordinary; irregular; something different from the norm
Replaces: oddity, abnormality
Anomaly isn't a word you'll probably use very often, but if you can figure out a use for it in your
essay, you're sure to impress your teacher. It's a way of saying something is strange or not normal,
but has such a class to it so you're not stuck saying, "It's so weird" but instead can say, "That's quite
an anomaly."
19.FACET
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20.PLETHORA
21.UBIQUITOUS
7. Entrenched – characterized by something that is firmly established and difficult to change – Adj.
10. Impetus – something that makes a process or activity happen or happen faster – N
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14. Instill – to gradually but firmly establish an idea or attitude into a person’s mind – V
Context 2: Analysis
These words can often be used when describing common patterns between examples or casting
some form of opinion or judgement.
28. Demagogue – a political leader or person who looks for support by appealing to prejudices
instead of using rational arguments – N
29. Deter – to discourage someone from doing something by making them doubt or fear the
consequences – V
33. Egregious – conspicuously bad; extremely evil; monstrous and outrageous – Adj.
36. Insidious – proceeding in a subtle way but with harmful effects – Adj.
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38. Pernicious – dangerous and harmful – Adj.
44. Zealot – a person who is fanatical and uncompromising in pursuit of their religious, political, or
other ideals – N
These words are appropriate for taking a stance on controversial topics, placing greater weight on
one or the other end of the spectrum, usually touching on abstract concepts, and/or related to
human nature or societal issues.
45. Autonomy – independence or self governance; the right to make decisions for oneself – N
47. Dichotomy – a division or contrast between two things that are presented as opposites or
entirely different – N
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1. A bad workman always blames his tools.
This proverb is used when someone blames the quality of their equipment or other external factors
when they perform a task poorly.
Example: X: The turkey isn’t cooked well because the oven is not functioning well. Y: Well, it’s the
case of a bad workman blaming his tools.
Things we already have are more valuable than what we hope to get.
Example: X: Why did you turn down that job offer when you don’t have anything concrete in hand at
the moment? Y: Well, I’m confident I’ll land one of the two jobs I interviewed for last week. And
they’re better than this one. X: In my opinion, you should’ve taken it. A bird in hand is worth two in
the bush.
When people we love are not with us, we love them even more.
Example: When I was with her she always fought with me but now she cries for me on phone. I think
distance made her heart grow fonder.
Example: I haven’t seen him for several weeks, but I wouldn’t really worry about him. Everyone
knows a cat has nine lives.
Example: No matter how confident the team is, it is as strong as its weakest link – its defence.
Actions are a better reflection of one’s character because it’s easy to say things, but difficult to act
on them and follow through.
Example: Julie always says she’ll donate to the school, and she never does, so I doubt she will this
year. Actions speak louder than words, after all.
When someone is in a difficult situation, s/he will take any available opportunity to improve it.
Example: After trying all reliable medicines, he is now visiting quacks to get a cure for his baldness. A
drowning man will clutch at a straw.
Example: After losing money in my investments, I know which investments to avoid. It is rightly said
adversity and loss make a man wise.
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9. A fool and his money are soon parted.
Example: She gave up her entire estate on the basis of a verbal promise. A fool and his money are
indeed easily parted.
Example: I’m feeling overwhelmed by the prospect of completing 4,000-word paper by next week,
but I guess I’ll start by writing 500 words every day. After all, a journey of a thousand miles begins
with a single step.
Example: X: Do you think he’ll stop copying after being caught and penalized? Y: I don’t think so. A
leopard can’t change its spots.
Example: I was so sad to graduate from college and separate from my friends, but I’ve to realize that
all good things come to an end.
Example: I’m glad you finally got here, even though your car had a flat tire on the way. Oh well, all’s
well that ends well.
Example: X: I want to be a movie star when I grow up. Y: Film industry looks good from the distance,
but it has its own problems. Remember, all that glitters is not gold.
One can break the rules of fair play under extenuating circumstances.
Example: X: How can you pitch my idea to the boss to look good? Y: Come on, all is fair in love and
war.
Example: You need to put your best foot forward in the interview if you want to land that job.
An incapable person can gain powerful position if others in the fray are even more incapable.
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Example: Despite his obvious lack of exposure and skills, he became head of the department
because he is one-eyed among the blind.
Example: Switch from chips to apples for your snack. An apple a day keeps the doctor away.
Example: The spokesperson of the ruling political party yesterday was shouting at the top of his
voice on a TV debate, trying to defend the indefensible. Empty vessel makes much noise.
Example: The kids should be kept busy during the summer break. Otherwise, you know an idle brain
is devil’s workshop.
A little precaution before a crisis hits is better than lot of firefighting afterwards.
Example: Get the vaccination on priority. An ounce of protection is worth a pound of cure.
Example: A picture is worth a thousand words. It is easier to learn biology through pictures than
through reams of text.
Example: X: He was well-mannered, suave, and good to talk to, but he turned out to be a cheater. Y:
Well, appearances can be deceptive.
A person who is always changing jobs and places has the advantage of less responsibilities, but also
the disadvantage of no fixed place to live.
Example: He was a bit of rolling stone before he got the job and settled down.
25. A ship in the harbor is safe, but that is not what a ship is for.
Get out of your comfort zone to grow and fulfill your potential.
Example: I think your fears are unfounded. You should travel to Italy for the Model UN. I’m sure
you’ll learn a lot. Remember, a ship in the harbor is safe, but that is not what a ship is for.
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It’s better to deal with problems immediately rather than wait by when they worsen and become
much bigger.
Example: Because we anticipated and responded to the possible change in Facebook algorithm, the
referral traffic to our website dropped much less than what happened to some of our competitors. A
stitch in time saves nine.
Example: You’ve got entangled in few cases of fraud. That’s a result of your illegal get-rich-quick
methods. You should have known as you sow, so you shall reap.
Example: He has already won first set in the match. I think he is on course to take this match. Well
begun is half done, after all.
Example: X: I’m really scared to report delay in the project to the boss. His temper is so over the top.
Y: I don’t think you should worry too much about it. Barking dogs seldom bite.
Choose things or people after proper diligence, but once you choose, stick for long.
Example: Don’t be hasty in picking friends, but once you make friends with someone, don’t change
him/ her fast. You should be slow in choosing, but slower in changing.
What may seem beautiful to one person may not seem to another.
Example: You may not like the curves of my new car, but then beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
A person’s character, intellect, and other inner qualities are more important than his/ her physical
beauty.
Example: That gorgeous actress behaved so rudely with the driver – beauty is skin deep, after all.
People who depend on the generosity of others can’t pick & choose things as per their liking.
They’ve to accept what is given to them.
Example: X: I borrowed this jacket from my friend, but it’s not one of his nice ones. Y: Well, but,
beggars can’t be choosers.
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The most valuable things are often free.
Example: I feel so rejuvenated in clean air, sparkling water, and beautiful nature of the mountains.
Often times, the best things in life are free.
Example: I’m sorry I’m late to the party, but better late than never, right?
36. Better to be poor and healthy rather than rich and sick.
Example: The pharma tycoon has been in and out of hospital for the last two months because of
kidney ailments. It’s better to be poor and healthy than rich and sick.
It is better to remain active than to be idle (used mainly for old people)
Example: X: Seeing your age, I wouldn’t recommend you to work so hard. Y: It’s better to wear out
than to rust out.
Relationships with family (or blood relatives) is stronger than other relationships.
Example: My friends invited me for the picnic on Sunday, but I have to go to my cousin’s birthday
instead. Blood is thicker than water, isn’t it?
A person’s character can’t be judged by his/ her clothing and outward appearance.
Example: X: I can’t believe he has been charged for insider trading. He always seemed so
professional and impeccable. Y: Well, clothes don’t make the man.
Cowards suffer the feared effects of death many times over in their lives.
Example: X: He is constantly worried about the security of his job, and I don’t think he’ll pursue his
true interests. Y: He exemplifies the saying ‘cowards die many times before their deaths’.
Example: Let’s just cross the stream where it is shallowest and find a spot that you can pull right in
to—don’t worry about parallel parking.
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43. Curiosity killed the cat.
Enquiring into others’ work can be dangerous. One should mind own business.
Example: I know curiosity killed the cat, but I can’t stop the investigation until I know where the
donations are really going.
Example: Politicians can fool some people some of the time, but in the end, chickens come home to
roost.
Example: Son: Can I go hand gliding with my friends? Father: No. Son: But they’ll say I’m a chicken if I
don’t go! Father: Discretion is the better part of valor, and I’d rather have them call you chicken than
risk your life.
Example: I bit off more than I can chew when I said ‘yes’ to my boss for another project.
Don’t act badly toward the person who has helped you or from whom you derive some benefits, for
you may lose those benefits in future.
Example: Don’t bite the hand that feeds you by talking ill of your mentor for such a small thing. If he
distances himself from you or talk bad about you, it can hurt you bad.
You should avoid proudly talking of your achievements and success in front of others.
Example: Don’t blow your own trumpet by talking of who your clients are and how much money you
make every month.
Example: To serve them French cuisine is like casting pearls before swine.
Don’t make plans based on future events that may not happen at all.
Example: X: I’ve to prepare for my campaign. Y: But you haven’t been nominated yet. Don’t count
your chickens before they hatch.
Deal with a situation when it happens and not unnecessarily worry about it in advance.
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Example: I know you’re worried about the mortgage payment in January, but don’t cross the bridge
till you come to it.
Just like you can’t form an opinion of a book just by looking at its cover, you can’t form an opinion
about someone (or something) from their outward appearance.
Example: He seems a bit jerk to me, but, hey, you never know. He may be good. You shouldn’t judge
a book by its cover.
53. Don’t kill the goose that lays the golden eggs.
If you kill a goose that lays golden eggs, you destroy something that makes lot of money for you.
Example: Tourists come to this city mainly to see this monument. By opening it to commercial use,
the city council may kill the goose that lays golden eggs.
Don’t put all your effort into a single course of action, venture, investment, goal, or the like, because
if it doesn’t work, you lose everything.
Example: Almost entire revenue of the Company comes from the Facebook platform. If Facebook
tweaks its policies in future, the Company may sink. They shouldn’t put all their eggs in the same
basket.
Do things in proper order. ‘Horse before the cart’ is the proper order, and not ‘cart before the
horse’.
Example: Don’t put the cart before the horse by finalizing the house you want to buy before you
arrange the funds for down payment.
Example: We shouldn’t scrap the entire project for a subpart not planned well. Let’s not throw the
baby with the bathwater.
One who starts early on the work has higher chance of success.
Example: X: Why have you come so early for the season-ending sale? Y: So that I can choose from a
wider selection and get a better piece. Early bird catches the worm, after all.
You say this when you get something easily and then lose it as easily.
Example: I found fifty dollars while on my morning walk, but I frittered it away foolishly by the
afternoon – easy come, easy go.
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A poor or hungry person cannot discharge his duties well.
Example: You cannot expect poor people to fight for climate change, because empty bags cannot
stand upright. They need to first fulfill their basic needs.
Every bad or negative situation can result in some benefit to you. (The presence of silver lining
means that the sun is behind the cloud and will eventually emerge.)
Example: I know your business has suffered few setbacks this season. But remember, every cloud
has a silver lining.
Even the unluckiest or the most unfortunate will taste success at some point.
Example: Are you surprised that John, the laggard, has got 92 percent marks in math? Well, every
dog has his day.
Your own actions and decisions decide what you achieve (or don’t) in life.
Example: Don’t blame others for your current state of affairs. Every man is the architect of his
destiny. You too are.
Anyone can be swayed to do something. It’s just that some may demand high price, some low. This
proverb is also used in the sense of bribing people.
Example: X: He has declined our offer to join the company. Y: Sweeten the offer. Raise the
compensation. Every man has his price.
Example: Abraham Lincoln lost so many elections, but he kept trying. Eventually he became the
President of United States. It’s rightly said: Fall seven times. Stand up eight.
If you know a situation, person, or thing well, you stop respecting them and become careless.
Example: After working so many years in that role, I don’t like it. I guess familiarity breeds contempt.
Fools or inexperienced persons get involved in situations or pursue goals without much thought. In
contrast, wise are thoughtful about such situations or goals.
Example: He sent an angry email without going into the background of the matter – fools rush in
where angels fear to tread.
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If you carry out your plans boldly, the luck is more likely to favor you.
Example: I know you’re hesitant to accept the overseas position in your Company because the
ground realities there are different from what you’ve faced so far, but remember fortune favors the
brave.
To leave a place or situation before conditions worsen and it becomes difficult to leave.
Example: With the stock market at an all-time high and further upside looking difficult, we decided
to sell our shares and get out while the going was good.
If you give someone a small amount of power or freedom to do something, they may try to get a lot
more.
Example: He borrowed my car for a day, but hasn’t returned even after four days. Well, give them an
inch and they’ll take a mile.
God doesn’t help those who don’t try. You’ve to make effort if you want to succeed.
Example: You’ve to take the bull by horns and try getting a new job. God helps those who help
themselves.
Example: The best investors in the world have made their fortunes by investing for the long term.
Good things come to those who wait.
Example: You shouldn’t hold back the news of financial loss you’ve incurred in your business. Grief
divided is made lighter.
Getting less than what one wants is better than not getting anything.
Example: X: Did you get the compensation for damage to your vehicle? Y: I was hoping for $2,000,
but the judge awarded only $800. X: Well, half a loaf is better than none.
It’s always better to be truthful and honest, even if the opposite may get you the benefits.
Example: I think you should just explain what happened, rather than trying to cover your tracks.
Honesty is the best policy, after all.
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Be optimistic, but be prepared for a scenario where things can go wrong.
Example: We’re hoping to raise capital from investors, but it may not come so soon. Therefore, it’s
imperative to look for alternatives as well. Let’s hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.
Example: X: Why do you want to change this component in the machine when everything is working
fine? Y: OK. I agree. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.
77. If the mountain won’t come to Muhammad, Muhammad must go to the mountain.
If things don’t turn the way you want them to, then adjust your way to suit those things.
Example: I need that book for completing my assignment. If you aren’t coming to the college
tomorrow, I’ll come to your place to take it – if the mountain won’t come to Muhammad,
Muhammad must go to the mountain.
If things were to happen by just wishing them, even the poorest will have everything they want.
Example: X: I want to be in a job that would pay me a million dollars a year. Y: If wishes were horses,
beggars would ride. Stop fooling yourself and work hard towards your goal.
If you can’t beat your opponent, then work alongside them for mutual benefit.
Example: ABC Pvt. Ltd. has struck partnership with its competitor after it failed to gain market share
despite aggressive marketing. If you can’t beat them, join them.
Example: Enacting the stunts of movie superheroes in real life is playing with fire. You may get
burned.
If you don’t know about something, you don’t need to bother about it. In other words, if you’re
unaware of something, it won’t cause you stress. This proverb, however, is often used in negative
way – ignorance is not bliss.
Example: I didn’t know that the neighbor next door was involved in criminal activities. Sometimes,
ignorance is bliss.
Example: One shouldn’t complain about the inconvenience of security check each time you enter
the building. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
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It is easy to understand what you could have done to prevent something bad from happening after it
has happened.
Example: I would have never bought an apartment if I had known that the land on which it has been
built is disputed. Well, it’s easy to be wise after the event.
Example: X: I still miss my best friend, but it’s been a year since our fight and we haven’t spoken to
each other since. Y: Well, it’s never too late to mend; why don’t you call him up and apologize?
Till the event has completely played, you’re still in with a chance to succeed.
Example: Jo-Wilfried Tsonga came back from two sets down at Wimbledon to pull off a miraculous
win. That’s why they say it’s not over till it’s over.
There is no point in staying upset over a mistake because you can’t undo what has happened.
Example: X: He is feeling terrible for accidently elbowing the flower pot from the window. Y: It’s
broken now. It’s no use crying over spilt milk.
Example: X: Why are you always so quarrelsome? Y: I’m not the only person involved. It takes two to
make a quarrel.
Where two parties are involved in a situation, fault usually lies with both if things go wrong. Rarely
can one party be blamed entirely.
Example: This deal won’t go through unless you too are willing to compromise. It takes two to tango,
after all.
Speak only when necessary and remain alert and observant at all times.
Example: We’re in a hostile territory. So, to avoid problems, keep your mouth shut and your eyes
open.
Example: I think the best thing for you right now would be to spend some time with people you can
joke around with. Laughter is the best medicine, after all.
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Learn basic skills first before venturing into complex things.
Example: X: I want to submit my first article to Fortune magazine for publication. Y: I think you
should aim for smaller publications to start with. You should learn to walk before you run.
Don’t talk about a bad situation people have forgotten and that could unnecessarily create problem
in the present.
Example: X: Should I ask the professor if he is upset about my late submission of the assignment? Y:
If he hasn’t said anything, then don’t bring forth the topic – let sleeping dogs lie.
A person truly starts enjoying life after forty as a result of accumulated skills and wisdom.
Example: X: I’m turning 40 next month. Y: You look glum. You should instead be cheerful, after all life
begins at forty.
Misfortune does not occur twice in the same way to the same person.
Example: X: I don’t want to take this route, because I was robbed the last time I traveled on this
route. Y: Don’t worry, lightning never strikes twice in the same place.
Consider all consequences before taking an action, especially when you can’t retract.
Example: X: I’m planning to pursue an MBA. Y: It’s an expensive degree and, moreover, you’ll be out
of work for two years. I would say look before you leap.
Example: I got plenty of referral traffic to my website from Facebook in its initial years. I made hay
while the sun shone. Later on they changed their algorithm, after which the traffic dried.
Spend money carefully because it’s limited. You can’t grow it on trees and replenish.
Example: I’m surprised that you spent your entire month’s salary on a frivolous gadget. Well, money
doesn’t grow on trees.
Example: I don’t have access to many people like he has, after all he is a scion of a rich family.
Money talks, you know.
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Example: In some parts of the world, farmers use washing machine to clean potatoes in large
volumes. Necessity, after all, is the mother of invention.
100. Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today.
Example: X: I’m done with most of my assignment, but I’ll pick the remaining part on Monday. Y:
Why don’t you complete it now? You’ll be more relieved and in a better state of mind. You shouldn’t
put off until tomorrow what you can do today.
If you’re in water with both feet down, you risk being swept away by the currents. The message is:
don’t put all your eggs in the same basket. Think twice before placing all your bets and investments
on one thing.
Example: While applying to colleges, don’t limit yourself only to those with high cutoff marks. Never
test the depth of the water with both feet.
Example: You’ve to drastically reduce the time you spend on video games and TV if you want to get
admission in a good college. No gain without pain.
If you don’t receive any news about someone or something, it means that everything is fine and
going normally.
Example: My daughter has been working in Australia for nearly five years now. At first I used to get
worried when I didn’t hear from her, but now I know that no news is good news.
You say this proverb when someone won’t do something a second time because they had bad
experience the first time.
Example: I won’t try this drink, because last time I had a burning sensation in my throat. Once bitten
twice shy, I guess.
Example: I sold my 6-year-old laptop for little amount, but I’m sure the buyer will make hefty profit
on it by refurbishing and selling it to someone else. One man’s junk is another man’s treasure, after
all.
Sometimes you get so focused on small details that you may miss the larger context.
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Example: The marketers got so bogged down on creating the perfect ad campaign that they didn’t
realize that the medium – Facebook – they wanted to use was no longer a viable option because of
its recent algorithm updates.
Example: Many celebrities find a way to appear in media because they know that out of sight is out
of mind.
Thinking and writing have more influence on people and events than use of force.
Example: After the mass killings at the newspaper office, there is a protest which is happening in the
city declaring support to the paper and proving that pen is mightier than sword.
109. People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones at others.
People who have faults should not criticize other people for having the same faults.
Example: The main political party in the opposition has blamed the ruling party for giving tickets to
people with dubious background in the upcoming elections. But the big question is: are they
themselves clean on this count? People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones at others.
You can achieve better results through persuasion than through coercion.
Example: After many futile attempts by the government, farmers finally agreed to acquisition of
their land on the promise of economic development of the area. That’s why it is said persuasion is
better than force.
Example: You can’t expect to master guitar in two months. You’ve to keep at it for several months,
as practice makes perfect.
Example: You keep telling us to go for a jog in the morning, but I wish you would practice what you
preach.
Example: You can’t expect her to finish such a complex project in a week. Rome wasn’t built in a day.
If you don’t object to what someone says or does, you may be assumed to agree to some extent.
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Example: He didn’t say anything to my proposal of going for a picnic on the weekend. I believe he is
not saying ‘no’. Silence is half consent.
Slow and consistent work leads to better chance of success than quick work in spurts.
Example: X: I’ve built a strong vocabulary by learning a word a day for the last three years. Y: Mine
has been much less even though I’ve had days when I polished off ten words. I guess slow and steady
wins the race.
If a person doesn’t speak much, it doesn’t mean they lack depth or are uninteresting.
Example: She is one of the smartest persons in the organization. She may not talk much, but still
waters run deep.
Example: I thought over the job offer I got way too long. Now it has been offered to someone else. I
should have struck while the iron was hot.
Example: X: I had everything covered for this project, but now I’m told that the project can’t go
ahead because the Company is planning an organizational restructuring. Y: Well, that’s unfortunate,
but sometimes the best-laid plans go astray.
A desired result is so important that any method, even a morally bad one, may be used to achieve it.
Example: He’s campaigning with illegal funds on the theory that if he wins the election the end will
justify the means.
The harder you work, the more good ideas and chances you may make for yourself.
Example: Many think he got lucky in getting that fat contract, but few know he had been pursuing
dozens of such contracts for several weeks – the harder you work, the luckier you get.
People are never satisfied with their own situation; they always think others have it better.
Example: X: When I see him post all those travel pictures on Instagram, I feel he has the perfect life.
Y: It’s usually not like that in real life. I’m sure he too has his share of problems. I see your thought as
grass being greener on the other side of the fence.
You can only judge the quality of something after you have tried, used, or experienced it.
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Example: X: Marketers have claimed that this weight loss diet produces strong results in just two
months. Y: Well, I’ll reserve my opinion till I’ve tried it myself. After all, proof of pudding is in the
eating.
Example: We can get around that by renting instead of buying the delivery van – there’s more than
one way to skin a cat.
Example: Don’t wait until New Year to change your bad habits. There’s no time like the present.
A group offers more protection than when you are on your own.
Example: Her parents won’t allow her to date but do let her go to parties, saying there’s safety in
numbers.
Example: X: Well, I was only trying to be helpful by mixing those two acids. Y: But, it exploded the
beaker. Well, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
A performance, event, etc., must continue even though there are problems.
Example: The chairman died yesterday but the show must go on.
People who complain the most are the ones who get attention or what they want.
Example: If you’re not satisfied with the service at the hotel, then you should call up the manager
there. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, after all.
You’ve no control over passage of time; it’ll keep slipping. So don’t procrastinate, don’t delay things.
Example: We need to hurry up or else we’ll miss the flight. Time and tide wait for no man.
When too many people work together on a project, the result is inferior.
Example: This proposal has received feedback from too many parliamentary committees, and that’s
probably the reason why it lacks clear actionables. I’ve no doubt that too many cooks spoil the
broth.
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Two persons have a better chance to solve a problem than one.
Example: More startups have two cofounders than one. That’s because they very well understand
that two heads are better than one.
You shouldn’t harm a person who has harmed you, even if you think that person deserves it.
Example: Just because he insulted you doesn’t mean it’s OK for you to start a rumor about him – two
wrongs don’t make a right.
Example: X: I’ve to submit the assignment next Monday, but I don’t have a clue on the topic. Y:
Consult your friends. Consult books. Understand the topic. Watch the doughnut, and not the hole.
If someone treats other people badly, he or she will eventually be treated badly by someone else.
Example: He tormented me back in high school, and now he has his own bully. What goes around
comes around.
Example: I don’t love cotton candy, but we are at a carnival. When in Rome, do as the Romans do,
right?
136. When the going gets tough, the tough get going.
Example: I know you’re not used to climbing at such heights, but come on when the going gets
tough, the tough get going.
If you are determined enough, you can find a way to achieve what you want, even if it is difficult.
Example: He had little resources to start his business, but he eventually did through a small opening
– blog. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
If there are rumors or signs that something is true so it must be at least partly true.
Example: X: Do you believe those rumors about the mayor? Y: Well, you know what they say, where
there’s smoke, there’s fire.
When you lose an opportunity to do one thing, an opportunity to do something else appears.
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Example: X: I failed to get into my dream college. Y: Don’t worry, this has happened with many. I’m
sure something better is waiting for you. Where one door shuts, another opens.
Without supervision, people will do as they please, especially in disregarding or breaking rules.
Example: As soon as their parents left, the children invited all their friends over – when the cat’s
away, you know.
141. You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
It’s easier to win people to your side by persuasion and politeness than by confrontation and threats.
Example: X: The courier service has taken more time to deliver than they had promised. I want to
take the issue up with them and get a refund. Y: I would suggest you deal with them politely. You
can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
142. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.
You can show people the way to do things, but you can’t force them to act.
Example: X: He has received all the resources one needs to start a business, but even after six
months I don’t see anything happening. Y: Well, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it
drink.
Sometimes you may face disappointments in your pursuits or your wishes may not be fulfilled.
Example: X: I want a bike on my birthday. Y: Sorry, you can’t always get what you want.
You can’t force someone into a role for which s/he is not suited.
Example: It took me a while, but I eventually understood that I was a round peg in a square hole in
the firm. That’s why I quit for a better-fitting role.
To have two things that one desires, but they’re normally impossible to get simultaneously.
Example: If you want more local services, you can’t expect to pay less tax. Well, you can’t have your
cake and eat it.
Example: If I don’t slash people’s salaries, the company is going to go bankrupt. It’s unfortunate, but
you can’t make an omelet without breaking eggs.
People who have long been used to doing things in a particular way will not abandon their habits.
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Example: I bet you can’t get him to get up at 5 AM and go out for a walk. After all, you can’t teach an
old dog new tricks.
Example: The spilt milk can’t be used. You can’t unscramble a scrambled egg.
Example: I know you’re disappointed to not convert that interview, but you can’t win them all.
150. You show me the man and I’ll show you the rule.
Rules change depending on how influential or powerful the person likely to be affected by the rules
is.
Example: X: He has been treated leniently by the police. Y: That’s why they say – you show me the
man and I’ll show you the rule.
Paragraph 1 – INTRODUCTION
3) Introduce topic
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4) Purpose of speech
e.g: The purpose of my talk today is to make you realize the
importance looking after your food intake and how your health can
be maintained through exercising.
Paragraph 6: Conclusion
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