Stress Management & Growth Strategies
Stress Management & Growth Strategies
TRAUMATIC GROWTH*
Structure
15.2 INTRODUCTION
You may be a young adult pursuing this course. You might be thinking of which career
to pursue after completion of the graduation degree. Or which further programme to
pursue? You might be feeling stressed about your higher education and career; at the
same time you might be forming relationship with opposite sex and exploring romantic
relationship. You might also be an adult already in job and/or with family; or you might
be an older person who has taken up this programme out of interest or to add to your
knowledge. Whatever age and stage of life you may be in, you must be facing stress
due to various reasons related to that particular stage. Adolescents experience stress
related to the physical and psychological changes; adults face stress related to their
job, family responsibilities, raising children, taking care of the older family members;
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support. Further, stress is also experienced by typical groups of population such as
children, women, people with disabilities, transgenders, people with HIV/AIDS, chronic
illness and so on. The underlying point here is that no stage of life and no group of
people are without stress. Stress is an integral part of life even though each one of us
invariably wants that their needs and desires get fulfilled and they achieve happiness in
life.
Think of it, if there were no stress, life will be simple, but may feel boring and lack
creativityalso. Stress in fact pushes us to perform to the best of our ability and stimulates
our problem solving and critical thinking. An optimum amount of stress motivates us
and enhances our performance. However, when stress goes beyond this optimum
level, which may vary from person to person, it results in stressful experience. Various
personal and environmental factors may act as barriers to reach our goals and place
adjustive demands on us leading to the experience of stress. The term ‘stress’ has
typically been used to refer both to the adjustive demand placed on an organism and to
the organism’s internal biological responses to such demands. All situations, whether
positive or negative, require adjustment, and may lead to stress.
Stress is often termed as aTwentieth Century Syndrome, born out of man’s race
towards modern progress and itsensuing complexities.
- Benjamin Franklin
Let’s Apply
Are you Vulnerable or Resilient?
Find out your vulnerability. What are the factors that may make you susceptible
to stress?
Identify your strengths or protective factors that can help you manage stress.
Make two columns on a sheet of paper and write down the above two.
Analyze if you have more vulnerability or more resiliency.
Reflect on how can you increase your resiliency.
Behavioral signs: poor self-care, not having time for the things you
enjoy or taking to drugs and alcohol to cope, smoking, overeating,
gambling, excessive internet use.
We can identify the stressors based on situations, activities, and relationships that cause
‘trauma’ to one’s physical, emotional, or psychological self. It can be from school,
work situation, family relationship, legal matters, finances, health, illness, environment
and other living situation.
Assessment of Stress
The most widely used psychological tool for measuring the perception of stress by the
individual is the ‘Perceived Stress Scale’ (PSS). It assesses the extent to which
individualsperceive their life situations/events as stressful. Other tools to measure stress
are LEDS (Life Events and Difficulty Schedule by Brown and Harris (1986), Stress
and Anxiety Inventory (STRAIN) by Slavich et. al. (2019), and Trier Social Stress
Test (TSST) by Kirschbaum, [Link]., (1993).Alongwith the various psychological tools
for measuring stress level, stress assessment also involves questionnaires, check lists
and interview with the person and significant others to understand the stress and take
appropriate measures to manage the stress.
Regular physical exercise is beneficial for physical health as well as mental health.
Aerobics, walking, jugging, swimming, riding bicycles, playing soft balls, and
tennis etc. can help in dealing with excessive stress levels. These forms of physical
exercise increase heart capacities, lower act-rest heart rate, provide a mental
diversion from work pressures and offer a means to “Let off steam” ( Kiely &
Hadgson, 1990).
Relaxation Technique
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Meditation:
Meditation (‘Dhyana’ in Sanskrit language) aims at quietening our mind to gain inner
awareness and spiritual enlightenment. It also helps manage stress and enhances one’s
health and well-being. There are various types of meditation (Villines, 2017, Welch,
2019) such as,
Mindfulness meditation refers to developing awareness about one’s thoughts and
emotions in the present moment, without any judgment. It involves shifting from our
default auto pilot mode to moment-to-moment awareness [Link] meditation
originates from Buddhist teachings. The main characteristics of mindfulness according
to Kabat-Zinn (1990) are being non-judgmental, cultivating patience, being open minded,
having trust, non-striving, acceptance and letting go.
Mindful breathing
Sit comfortably with erect and relaxed posture and eyes closed.
Focus on your breath as you inhale and exhale without trying to change
it.
If any other thought comes to your mind, just notice it without any
judgement, and then gently bring back your focus on your breath.
Mindfulness can help reduce stress and promote positive mental health.
Mantra meditationuses a repetitive sound, usually “Om” for chanting. It can also be
any other word/phrase or 1-2 lines prayer, which can be spoken loudly or quietly. It is
prevalent in Hindu and Buddhist traditions and aims at achieving a deeper consciousness.
Transcendental meditationalso involves chanting of a ‘mantra’/ or a word which is
specific toeach practitioner, and gradually intends to transcend or move beyond this
specific chanting.
Guided meditationmainly involves sitting with eyes closed and visualisation of certain
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Loving-kindness meditation, also known as ‘Metta meditation’, focuses on Stress Management and Post
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generating and spreading love and kindness to all around us. It involves feelings of
acceptance and compassion for all.
Vipasana meditation aims at self transformation by focusing and realizing the mind-
body connection.
Chakra (wheel) meditationfocuses on balancing the seven chakras – the energy
centres in our body, to reduce stress, create awareness and bring harmony in our life.
The seven chakras are Root chakra (Mooladhara), Sacral chakra (Swadhisthana),
Solar plexus chakra (Nabhi chakra), Heart chakra (Anahata), Throat chakra
(Vishuddhi), Third eye chakra (Agnya), and Crown chakra (Sahastrara).
Thus cognitive restructuring requires one to restructure or modify one’s thinking patterns.
Based on this, Aaron Beck (1967) has developed the Cognitive behavior therapy
(CBT),which focuses on modifying the irrational thinking patterns of the individual,
resulting in adaptive behavior and stress reduction.
Activity1
Think of any situation/incident in your life and apply the ABC triangle. Write down
the activating stimulus, the consequences, and the your belief system. Check
whether your beliefs help or hinder the outcome.
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Positive Attitude: Stress Management and Post
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Positive attitude refers to having an attitude that good things will happen, that one
would be able to deal with a challenge or an adverse situation. Thus it involves thinking
in a positive way, and having positive emotions towards the stressful situation. As the
proverbial question goes, “if the glass is half full or half empty”?, positive attitude involves
looking at things/situations/events/people and focusing on what positive or good is
present rather than looking at the negative or absence side. Thus it involves characteristics
of optimism, hope, divergent thinking, and resilience. Positive attitude makes one
confident, results in problem solving, reduces stress, and increases the inner strength of
the individual.
You must be thinking why don’t we have a positive attitude then?Mostly we are
attuned to negative thinking because of the ‘negativity bias’ of our brain. Our brain
easily picks up the negatives as it concerns survival from an evolutionary point of
view. However, we can easily develop a positive attitude by developing awareness
about it. Practicing positive attitude is a constructive process where you do not
negate the negative thoughts. Rather you adopt a critical approach to the situation
and think about the best possible alternatives in the situation while maintaining an
attitude of positivity. Positive thinking makes your thinking flexible and opens up
[Link] focus of thinking is contextual, not global, e.g., if you failed the job
interview, you think in the context of one interview which did not go well, and you do
not think that you will never do well in a job interview.
Positive attitude involves cognitive restructuring where we deliberately engage in thinking
in positive terms. We need to practice positive affirmations and focus on the positive
side of any challenge. Engage in positive self-talk and use visualization strategies. Create
a mental picture of what you want to achieve and how you want to see the things. This
will then help you to engage in constructive and divergent thinking regarding ways to
achieve this goal. Remember that we first create a mental picture; the physical or actual
creation follows this mental creation, for instance, when you are doing a project, or
planning a trip etc. Since we are hard-wired for negative thinking, it will require real
effort and practice to change our default mode of thinking and engage in positive thinking.
This will help to manage our stress and be effective in a situation.
Expressing Gratitude:
Gratitude refers to ‘The quality of being thankful or grateful’. It involves showing
appreciation for something. Expressing gratitude also fosters positive attitude in the
individual as it reduces our attention on the negative things in our life. If you think about
our traditions and culture, our festivals and rituals offer occasions for showing our
gratitude towards nature, other people, and our ancestors. We need to recognize and
consciously focus on cultivating an attitude of gratitude.
Gratitude not only makes you feel good by generating positive emotions, but also
boosts our physical health and psychological well-being. It releases dopamine and
serotonin which make us feel happy. Gratitude widens our thinking and perspective,
and enhances resilience. One needs to practice gratitude, e.g., by writing gratitude
letters, that is, letters that express your thankfulness to someone; gratitude visits where
you visit people to express how grateful you are for their support; counting your blessings,
i.e., focusing on the good things in your life; keeping a gratitude journal where you
write down your positive experiences during the day etc.
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Interventions Gratitude for yourself : Be aware about yourself. Find out your strengths, focuson
what is good in you and express gratitude.
Gratitude for others : Be aware of contribution of others in your life; your
parents have given you birth, raised you, provided for your optimum development,
education and so on. Other significant people in your life have also contributed to
your life in various ways. Your friends, colleagues, neighbours have extended help
and support to you on many occasions. Think, identify, and express gratitude for
those instances.
Gratitude for everything : Be aware of this precious life, the wonders of the
nature, this vast universe, the elements of the universe; and express gratitude.
Coping Strategies :
Coping can be described as deliberate efforts directed towards decreasing the negative
effects of stressful situations. An adaptive coping style helps reduce stress whereas,
maladaptive coping has negative impacts on physical and psychological health of the
individual. Problem-focused coping tries to address the problem itself, that is, removing
the cause of the stress. For instance, you switch on the fan if you are feeling too hot.
However, emotion-focused coping deals with the emotions arising out of the stressful
experience, e.g., you felt hurt by your friend’s behaviour and you tried to manage your
hurt feeling by distracting yourself in some other activity. On the other hand, acceptance-
oriented coping focuses on developing a sense of acceptance for the stressful situation
where the things ar not under control of the individual, e.g., accepting the loss and
damage of house and other properties due to the cyclone.
Individual differences exist in the way individuals cope with stressful situations. This
couldbe due to various factors such as personality of individuals, gender, tolerance
level for stimulation, psychological hardiness, style of attribution, and learned
helplessness(Beck [Link]., 1983; [Link]., 2006; Shenellet. al.,2015, &Tang
[Link].,2015).
Leisure activities are those that we engage in to relax, reduce our stress, and feel good
about ourselves. These are pleasurable activities done voluntarily such as playing games,
drawing, pursuing one’s hobbies, socializing, being with nature, and so on. Research
focuses on leisure as a coping resource which has ample benefits for our physical as
well as mental health(Chun, Lee, Kim, & Heo, 2012; Pressman, Matthews, Cohen,
Martire, Scheier, Baum, & Schulz, 2009; Qian, Yarnal, & Almeida, 2014). Usually
leisure time is thought of as a wastage of time and/or given less time for it. However,
leisure time has manifold benefits and can help us engage in work and other activities
with new vigour.
As there are various stressors, we also have a variety of stress-busters or coping
resources. Various leisure activities depending on the individual’s preferences and
interests can help reduce stress in the individual. It is more informative to study each
leisure activity and how it helps to cope with various stressors rather than studying the
many ways of coping with certain stressors (Costa, Somerfield, & McCrae, 1996).
Connecting with People:
Connecting with people is an important tool to reduce stress. When we connect and
interact with others, it releases the stress and anxiety within. It results in catharsis which
reduces the stress in the individual. Feeling connected with others helps one to get the
necessary social support, increases their confidence, and generates a feeling of trust.
Connection with our family and relatives, friends, neighbours, and the community is a
great asset in managing our stress. It provides us the support and has a positive impact
on our physical and mental health. Even if the person is not present physically, still the
perceived social connection has lots of benefits. It provides a feeling of confidence,
comfort, and assurance that someone is there to provide you with help and support.
Let’s Apply
Next time when you have an argument or conflict, think of which conflict resolution
strategy are you using?
Note the context, is it with friends, at workplace, or family. Does the conflict
resolution strategy change depending on the situation?
Problem Solving:
Problem solving involves finding solution to a problem at hand. It can be explained
as a mental process that includes analysis of the problem in order to find a solution
for it. Problems can be categorized into routine and non-routine problems and
well-defined and ill-defined or poorly defined problems. The steps in problem
solving include identification of problem, brainstorming for ideas and solutions,
selecting a solution and implementing the plan of action and reflecting on the
effectiveness of the solution. Strategies of problem solving include trial and error,
heuristics, algorithm and insight-oriented methods.
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