Developing Self-Control
6 September 2009
Fruit of the Spirit (Gal 5:22)
Love
Joy
Peace
Patience
Kindness
Goodness
Faithfulness
Gentleness
Self-Control
Think For A Moment
Consider:
What are some problems you are struggling with?
Do you the lack of self-control is the reason
behind these problems?
How often do we exercise self-control?
Vulnerability of Zero Control
Proverbs 25:28
Like a city whose walls are broken down is a
man who lacks self control.
Defenceless
Overwhelmed
Helpless
Developing Self-Control
7 ways:
Admit Your Problem
Put Your Past Behind You
Talk Back To Your Feelings
Believe You Can Change
Make Yourself Accountable
Avoid Temptation
Depend on Christs Power
Admit Your Problem
James 1:14
But each one is tempted when he is drawn away
by his own desires and enticed. (NKJV)
What you like to do, you do.
Admit the fact, and start to look for the solution,
rather than search for excuses for succumbing to
temptation.
Put Your Past Behind You
Philippians 3:13
forgetting those things which are behind and
reaching forward to those things which are
ahead. (NKJV)
Once a failure, always a failure? NOT SO!
Perseverance and determination to succeed will
lead to success
Talk Back To Your Feelings
Titus 2:11,12
For the grace of God that brings salvation has
appeared to all men, teaching us that, denying
ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live
soberly, righteously, and godly in the present
age. (NKJV)
Dont let your moods/feelings manipulate you!
Be the master, not the slave, and God will help
you achieve this
Believe You Can Change
Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through him who strengthens
me. (NKJV)
You can do EVERYTHING in Christ!
Temptation is never too great that you cannot bear
(1 Cor 10:13). You can overcome it if you set
your mind to go about doing it
Make Yourself Accountable
Ecclesiastes 4:12
Though one may be overpowered by another,
two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is
not quickly broken. (NKJV)
Sharing your troubles with a brother who can
support and encourage you constantly will be a
great help
Let your brothers/sisters be the pillars of support
around you
Avoid Temptation
1 Corinthians 15:33
Do not be deceived. Evil company corrupts god
habits. (NKJV)
Dont give the devil a chance to tempt you!
Avoid people and situations that will tempt you to
lose control and sin
Fill your environment with good habits and filter
out bad company choose your friends wisely!
Depend On Christs Power
Galatians 5:16
I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not
fulfill the lust of the flesh. (NKJV)
Walk in the Spirit FIRST, and you will avoid the
lust of the flesh listed in Gal 5:19-21. Its not the
other way around!
Let the power of God assist you in your battle
against sin and to develop your self-control
Summary
7 ways to develop self-control:
Admit Your Problem
Put Your Past Behind You
Talk Back To Your Feelings
Believe You Can Change
Make Yourself Accountable
Avoid Temptation
Depend on Christs Power