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🚫 Do you say No to Drama? ⛔️ How do you deal with bad vibes? 🛑 How do you avoid negativity? 🆘 How do you deflect anxiety? 🎭 Drama perpetuates negativity, anxiety, bad vibes, and destructive emotions. Recognizing that it stalls personal and professional growth by cultivating a toxic environment is vital. This atmosphere distracts from productive work, disrupts collaboration, erodes relationships, and drains emotional energy, ultimately compromising our well-being. Consequently, those involved are drained of focus on learning, hindering growth, distracted from attaining their goals, and often lose valuable connections and friends. Bottom line, it's a turn-off. Nothing good comes of it. Remember, negativity and division create more of the same. It is one of the main contributors to a toxic work culture and a driving force for micromanagement. 😩 The roots of Drama often stem from an intense craving for attention, a deep-seated need to feel important, or a misguided attempt to cope with anxiety by introducing chaos and hysteria, often at the expense of others. Those who engage in Drama may unconsciously seek conflict and derive an unhealthy sense of power from being in turmoil, portraying themselves as victims to gain sympathy and control the narrative. This mindset usually reflects a troubling acceptance of victimhood that may arise from poor self-worth. Unfortunately, it attracts weak and easily distracted individuals who see themselves as "empathetic" and "kind." Sadly, they are often blind to the reality that they become the sacrificial lambs in this self-destructive cycle. 🪃 So, how can one deal with Drama? Cut it off. Nip it in the bud, prioritize your well-being, and move away. We pray for them and everyone who crosses our paths, especially the "dramatic" individuals, wishing them peace as they continue their vibrational journey. 💫🕊 🙏 "It is impossible to bless and judge at the same time. So hold constantly as a deep, hallowed, intoned thought the desire to bless, for truly then shall you become a peacemaker, and one day you shall behold, everywhere, the very face of God. And, of course, above all, do not forget to bless the utterly beautiful person you are. 🫵✨🕊"―Pierre Pradervand, The Gentle Art of Blessing. 🎈 Please share your experiences and thoughts on how you deflect Drama, bad vibes, negativity, and anxiety in the comments. 🤲 I am grateful for the empowering and transformative inspiration of LinkedInLinkedIn Skill PagesLinkedIn for LearningLinkedIn Talent Solutions, and the LinkedIn Guide to Creating, which have transformed me into who I am today. Thank you to the LinkedIn Team! #India  #Motivation  #PersonalDevelopment  #Inspiration  #WhatInspiresMe

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Maria Cecilia Conder

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1mo

💕 Follow these kinder-than-kindest inspirational human beings and leaders on LinkedIn. In random order: (send DM) John Tellson, CLSSGB Vasinthie Moodaley. Ahmed Soliman Christian V Petrică Mihalache (RO🇷🇴) Valda Alleyne, PhD Hamza Qureshi Zahmoul El Mays Zakaria Khan Hemant Gadgill 🇮🇳

Maria Cecilia Conder

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1mo
Maria Cecilia Conder

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1mo

A corporate leader shared a remarkable story about wondering why their teams had been constantly bickering and arguing for years. Finally, they uncovered how a mid-level employee who presented as "mousey," "disarming," and consistently lavished praise on everyone took them off their guard. When this patronizing person captures attention and gains confidence, others unwittingly depend on the praise supply. This person mastered the art of triggering.  The divisiveness, gossip, intrigue, backbiting, and Drama were masterfully introduced incrementally, wreaking havoc and Drama throughout their organization. Eventually, they let go of this person, and everything improved significantly! This leader had a chance to speak to a former employer of the drama-prone individual, and true enough, they endured the same. Indeed, awareness and recognition of the symptoms are critical. Drama people are masters of deception, manipulation, and emotional triggering.😵 #StoryTelling #Manipulation #Anxiety #Gossip #BackStabbing

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Maria Cecilia Conder

💡Top 100 Global Thought Leaders 2024/2023💡2025 Top Board Member Fine Arts IAOTP💡 Top Rising Stars 2024/2023💡LinkedIn's Top Community Voice 10X 💡Top 100 Filipinos on LinkedIn 2024/2023💡CEO-Founder💡I Follow Back 💫

1mo
Maria Cecilia Conder

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1mo

💕 Follow these kinder-than-kindest inspirational human beings and leaders on LinkedIn. In random order: Avnish Sharma Julia Sakovich🏗🏢🏬🏣🏥🏭 Elizabeth Ocampo Roselle M. Maria Lourdes A. de Vera Mari Pantoja-Smith, MSN-RN, CGNC, BRMP Mark Adams Raja Jayaraman ANIL KUMAR BHATIA Jan Dale Carlo Catalonia MATT ALLEN

Maria Cecilia Conder

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1mo

Engr. Rana Hamza Shakil, thank you heaps for reposting! I appreciate your support, inspiration, and kindness. 🙌♻️

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Maria Cecilia Conder

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1mo

Stella Berlanga, thank you for reposting. I appreciate your support, inspiration, and kindness. ♻️🙌

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Maria Cecilia Conder

💡Top 100 Global Thought Leaders 2024/2023💡2025 Top Board Member Fine Arts IAOTP💡 Top Rising Stars 2024/2023💡LinkedIn's Top Community Voice 10X 💡Top 100 Filipinos on LinkedIn 2024/2023💡CEO-Founder💡I Follow Back 💫

1mo

BIJIBILLA RAMA RAO, thank you for reposting. I appreciate your support, insights, and kindness. ♻️🙌

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Maria Cecilia Conder

💡Top 100 Global Thought Leaders 2024/2023💡2025 Top Board Member Fine Arts IAOTP💡 Top Rising Stars 2024/2023💡LinkedIn's Top Community Voice 10X 💡Top 100 Filipinos on LinkedIn 2024/2023💡CEO-Founder💡I Follow Back 💫

1mo

🎯We always have a choice: embrace positivity and thus honor our boundaries. Our boundaries are a work in progress as we evolve personally and professionally. It is vital to review them. When it comes to (emotional/psychological) Drama, it is empowering to be aware of it, identify it, and move away to protect our mental health. Put your peace of mind first.  A corporate leader told me they wondered why their teams had been constantly bickering and arguing for years. Finally, they uncovered a mid-level employee who presented as "mousey," "disarming," and consistently lavished praise on everyone. This took them all off their guard. When this person gains confidence, others unwittingly become dependent on the praise. This person mastered the art of triggering.  The divisiveness and Drama were masterfully introduced incrementally, wreaking havoc and Drama throughout their organization. Eventually, they let go of this person, and everything improved significantly! This leader had a chance to speak to a former employer of the drama-prone individual, and true enough, they endured the same. Indeed, awareness and recognition of the symptoms are critical. Drama people are masters of deception, control, and emotional triggering.😵

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Maria Cecilia Conder

💡Top 100 Global Thought Leaders 2024/2023💡2025 Top Board Member Fine Arts IAOTP💡 Top Rising Stars 2024/2023💡LinkedIn's Top Community Voice 10X 💡Top 100 Filipinos on LinkedIn 2024/2023💡CEO-Founder💡I Follow Back 💫

1mo

With my utmost gratitude and appreciation for all the likes, comments, and reposts from my #LinkedInFamily #LinkedInCommunity from all over the world! I appreciate all of your support, empowerment, and kindness always. We are One Love in all the shades of Love❣️🌎💕🌍💞🌏💖🌐🙌 #Philippines #USA  #Europe  #China #Africa #UAE  #SaudiArabia  #Morocco #Canada #Nigeria  #France #Australia #SouthAmerica  India [tagged on the main body of this post] And so many more! #Gratitude #ThankYou #Future

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