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Bonus: "Listen, I've Got A Spare Ten Minutes, I Was Just On My Way To Grab A Quick Coffee, Come and Join Me... "

This document provides tips for beginners on approaching women during the day ("daygame"). It recommends getting phone numbers from multiple women to avoid neediness. It also suggests asking women on "instant dates" for coffee to get more practice. The document stresses the importance of taking action by going out and talking to women, rather than just reading about pickup techniques. Regular practice doing approaches is key to overcoming anxiety and improving skills.

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Bonus: "Listen, I've Got A Spare Ten Minutes, I Was Just On My Way To Grab A Quick Coffee, Come and Join Me... "

This document provides tips for beginners on approaching women during the day ("daygame"). It recommends getting phone numbers from multiple women to avoid neediness. It also suggests asking women on "instant dates" for coffee to get more practice. The document stresses the importance of taking action by going out and talking to women, rather than just reading about pickup techniques. Regular practice doing approaches is key to overcoming anxiety and improving skills.

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Tom Torero

As you’re saying this, pull out your phone and assume the close. Don’t
give her your number (or, even worse, your business card) but get her
details – WhatsApp, Facebook messenger, it doesn’t really matter.

And that’s it – congratulations if you can go outside and complete


Steps 1-5 in order to collect phone numbers from cute girls during the
day. The more numbers you get (“leads”) the less needy you’ll be with
any one girl.

Remember it’s very normal for some of the numbers to flake and not
reply, or text for a bit and then vanish. Some will end up coming out on
a date, some won’t. That’s the name of the game.

BONUS

As you saw Charlie and Kevin doing


in the “Beginner’s Guide To Daygame”
video, it’s possible to not just get a
girl’s digits but to take her then and
there for an “Instant Date.”

This is good for beginners as it gives you more


face-to-face time with the girl so you can practice your dating skills
and lower the chances of flaking.

To try for an Instant Date, replace Step 5 with this sentence:

“Listen, I’ve got a spare ten minutes, I was just on my way to grab a
quick coffee, come and join me...”

Don’t hesitate or wobble – you’ve got to say it with conviction, point to


where you’re going and start walking. If she still says no, go back to
Step 5 and get her number.

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Beginner’s Guide to Daygame

GOING FORWARDS

Once you’ve practiced the LDM infield over and over, you can rely less
on the scaffolding and start to improvise a bit more, making it your
own. For some guys this takes weeks, for others months. Eventually
you’ll be doing all the key things on autopilot so you can ditch the
model and free flow.

Remember, “out of structure comes freedom.” Learn to walk before


you run. First get rid of your old bad habits and have some learnt
material ready.

NOW TAKE ACTION

Pickup is not about reading PDFs or watching videos. It’s about going
outside and actually talking to girls! Don’t become an armchair pickup
artist or mentally masturbate over theory. Once you understand the
basics in this book then leave your house and hit the streets.

Get a wing if it helps (although you shouldn’t rely on one to beat


Approach Anxiety). Google my blog post called “Find A Daygame
Wing” where hundreds of guys across the world have left their details.

Use your phone in your jacket pocket or a cheap dictaphone to


audio record some of your interactions and then listen back to
them after the daygame session. Use the check list at the back of
the book to see where you’re slipping up.

Create a strict daygame schedule – much like for work or


fitness. Most regular hustlers go out 3-5 times a week and
do 10 approaches in each session, meaning 30-50 per
week. It’s not just a numbers game, but volume is key.

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