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Pamela Stephenson Connolly

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is patron of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) corst.org.uk

January 2025

  • A woman lying in bed with a man next to her sitting up, looking upset

    Sexual healing
    My partner reaches orgasm long before I do – then she loses all interest

    It’s been like this for most of our 10 years together. I’m getting a little frustrated
  • A man lounging on the bed with the background. Woman in foreground sitting with head in hands looking anxious

    Sexual healing
    I love my husband – but his yellow teeth and back hair give me the ick

    I don’t want to upset him, as he’s extremely proud and sensitive. But I am now having to grin and bear every sexual encounter we have
  • Two women holding each other

    Sexual healing
    My lover and I can’t stop having sex – and it’s disrupting our working lives

    We have an insatiable desire for each other. But it’s stopping us developing the less sexual sides of our relationship

December 2024

  • Woman lying back in bed looking happy while a man leaves the room

    Sexual healing
    I’m having the best sex of my life – but I can’t climax until my lover leaves the room

  • A picture of a couple in bed.

    Sexual healing
    I wake up aroused – but can’t maintain it to make love to my wife

November 2024

  • Woman looks sad while embracing man.

    Sexual healing
    Sex with my partner was great – until I stopped feeling anything during penetration

  • Illustration of a man and woman in bed together, divided by a red line

    Sexual healing
    My boyfriend finds menstruation unappealing – and I feel rejected every month

  • Composite illustration of a woman and fireworks

    Sexual healing
    Why can I only ever enjoy sex with a partner when we’re in the ‘honeymoon stage’?

  • A concerned-looking woman rests her arm on a man's shoulder, as he looks into the distance.

    Sexual healing
    I haven’t had sex with my husband for three years – and I’m ready to look elsewhere

October 2024

  • A woman with a plaintive expression resting her head on a man’s shoulder as he gazes into the distance

    Sexual healing
    My partner isn’t meeting my sexual needs – and he’s rejecting my attempts to spice things up

  • A woman looking pensive

    Sexual healing
    I keep crying after sex – and I have no idea why

  • Composite (photo and illustration) of a couple in an awkward embrace for G-spot/ Sexual Healing column

    Sexual healing
    No matter how hard he tries, my boyfriend can’t find my G-spot

  • Man and woman sitting on a bed, the man kissing the woman gently on the side of the head

    Sexual healing
    Sex with my husband feels loveless – and yet he refuses to provide affection

September 2024

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    Sexual healing
    I cheated on my partner – and haven’t told him. How can I forgive myself?

    I immediately knew it was a mistake and have felt terrible guilt ever since. Is it possible to remain in what is otherwise a good relationship?
  • A couple in bed, sleeping back to back.

    Sexual healing
    I haven’t had sex with my partner since his affair. We still share a bed – but I want more

    I deserve a love life, whether it’s with him or someone else. How can I get over the way he’s treated me?
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    Sexual healing
    My wife has little interest in foreplay but I can’t get aroused without it

    My GP has prescribed a low dose of Viagra but it isn’t enough for a satisfactory erection. How do we find a way forward?

August 2024

  • A man and woman in bed

    Sexual healing
    My partner and I only have sex three times a year – and I am frustrated

    She denies being anxious and doesn’t want to seek counselling, but the situation is starting to feel unsustainable
  • A graphic of a man sitting on the side of a bed

    Sexual healing
    I need oral sex to stay erect – but my girlfriend doesn’t like giving it

    I find her very attractive and we love each other, so why is this happening during penetration?
  • An image of a man and woman lying side by side

    Sexual healing
    My wife has no libido. Should I sleep with other people, as she suggests?

    Her sex drive started to disappear after an operation, but I think an open relationship will lead to disaster. How do we reach a compromise?

July 2024

  • ‘Presently he is off porn but is still not sexually interested in me.’

    Sexual healing
    I crave sex with my husband – but his porn addiction gets in the way

    My friends are disgusted that I haven’t left him, but he is otherwise a kind and loving man. How can we fix our relationship?
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